The part of Madelyn being brought into this world that didn't have a clear line drawn for us was her meeting Patrick and their relationship from that day forward. Like any parent of a second child, it is the most important thing in the world for us that Patrick understands, as much as he is able, that we love him completely and without condition, even when that condition is a new sibling. And so, we were both curious and admittedly a little worried about what their introduction would turn out to be and how Patrick would react to sharing the spotlight with a new person Mommy and Daddy loved just as much as they love him.
Angie being a planner and me hating the feeling of not knowing what to expect (we've found those are two different things as much as they sound similar), we did what we usually do in situations we're unsure of: asked the advice and opinion of everyone we know, read whatever materials we could find and talked to each other, a lot, about what we wanted for our two kids. In our minds, the first hurdle to jump was the two of them meeting each other. The all-crucial first introduction.
Then we got to the hospital, and things couldn't have gone better. Patrick was so excited to see his little sister. It was like he already knew her and had just been missing her, waiting for her to come back. He wanted to touch her, hold her, hug her, kiss her and make sure everyone in the room knew how wonderful she was all at once. And Madelyn endured the onslaught of enthusiastic and clumsy affection with only a minimal amount of squirming and fear for her life.
And we can't say thank you enough to our parents for taking care of Patrick while we were at the hospital. This transition for him wouldn't have gone nearly as well if he wasn't with people he adores during his time away from us.
Angie and I are so excited to see what's next. We can't wait for them to grow up together and enjoy life's experiences at the same time and in their own ways. Even knowing there will be plenty of fights, arguments and all the other turbulence that comes with siblings, we know it's worth it, from our own lives.
Here are a few more pictures from the last couple days at home...
6 comments:
Precious just so precious. Love to all four of you! Meme
So happy the transition went so smoothly. Can't wait to see you all.
Love Grandma
Oh my goodness! She has already changed so much--just from Sunday! So glad Pat Pat is such a sweet big brother. I can't wait to see the FOUR of you soon!
Love,
Amy
So glad all is well. Thanks for all the updates since Madelyn was born...it is so nice to be able to see from so far away. Love to you all, Auntie Mandie
Just beautiful! And thumbs up to big brother Patrick!
Your beautiful journey is just beginning. Enjoy this special time, it is truly a gift from God.
Love to the 4 of you!
The Heaton 5
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